When one age, he or she becomes more patient when it comes to pleasuring the partner. Gone are the days when one is so randy he or she would just like to get it on and forget about foreplay. Why not turn your age to an advantage and use your patience to satisfy your partner to the fullest, right?

A great way to experience with your partner’s pleasures is to use sex toys and other kinky stuff. Sex toys become especially handy when the man cannot have the same level of erections that he can get when he was younger. A vibrator can go on as long as the batteries allow it, and the dildo will stay hard until, well, it gets broken into pieces. If one’s jaw becomes less sturdy for long minutes of oral sex, a vibrator can save the night. It can vibrate endlessly and produce awesome clitoral sensations over and over again.

If your body cannot accommodate freaky positions that seem easy to do during your younger years, do not fret. There are lots of sex furniture available that can cushion and support the body for more enjoyable sex. There are swings that can fully support a woman’s body, giving the man less burden on lifting and more energy for thrusting and hand play. There are wedges that can lift a woman’s back or butt to give a man easier access to her g-spot, which translates to faster and more intense orgasms.

If you feel that your sex drive is waning all too quickly, there are countless DVDs that can improve one’s libido. From sensual soft porn to extreme hardcore stuff, you will never run out of choices as far as porn is concerned.

These early morning hours before dawn are when his testosterone is at their peak levels. He is totally relaxed after having had a good night’s sleep. He hasn’t done anything yet to stress him out, like work.

Women can take advantage of the peak hours by giving themselves and their mates a neat start for the day. The man may still be asleep, but his cock will be wide awake. It will be like a soldier at attention, ramrod straight and ready for action. There’s no better time to go for the woman-on-top position.

Whether he wakes up or stays half asleep, the fucking can be muy excelente. The guy’s cock can be so hard that it can be a match to the hardest dildo. For the woman, this is pure mmmmmmhhh! As for the guy, he will be getting the release that his penis is begging for, if only it could talk.

After the fine fuck, the couple can either go back to sleep, or start their day on the right foot. Both will be happy and raring to conquer the world. Or at least face the day’s work with smiles on their faces. Any hassles can be forgotten by recalling the wondrous wake up call.

The couple can reply to a ‘good morning’ greeting from everyone they meet with a ‘Great morning!’

As a toy used for masturbation, there is nothing like it. And its butt rather than vagina entry hole says that there’s plenty of big boys out there who are into anal sex

A buyer would expect this Fleshlight to perfectly simulate the inside of a young woman’s butt, and it does. But it has more to offer, as every first time user discovers with his initial use.

It begins with the suction action that feels like a blow job from an expert. The cock is also surprised at the soft sensations felt once it enters the sleeve of this Fleshlight. The soft sensations coupled with the sucking action have been known to cause men to scream at the point of orgasm.

One common comment is that “it’s better than the real thing.”

This may sound absurd, but Fleshlight fans swear that their sensitive dicks feel pampered in a way that no other sex toy, or no other woman’s anus, can deliver.

Fleshlight buyers have the choice of getting a toy whose entry is shaped like a woman’s mouth, vagina or butt. Based on the huge demand for the butt model, there is a global community of millions of men who want to enjoy the sensations of butt fucking. The Ice Crystal – Butt is definitely for them.

This model does look like a piece of ice shaped like a flashlight. Added together, the aesthetic feature, the supreme pleasures it gives, and the long lifespan with proper care and maintenance makes the Ice Crystal that retails at less than $50 a bargain that no man should do without.

Not in my home country. I came to the US when I was only five years of age. My parents had emigrated from the Philippines, specifically that part of the old country known as the Ilocos region.

People from the Ilocos – called Ilocanos – have a reputation for being frugal. Even back in the Philippines, this trait sometimes makes them the butt of jokes. The most common Filipino word used to describe them is “kuripot” or tightwad.

Needless to say, I grew up in Daly City with my family’s old values intact. My name is Brenda and I’m studying to be a nurse. I’m 20, single and proud of my heritage. We are usually referred to as FilAms, or Americans of Filipino descent.

Since I got my own small apartment, I have become more and more sexually active. I’m sure my parents would frown on this, bless their hearts, but I do enjoy sex so much.

Since I don’t have a boyfriend now – my last one was a jerk – I still crave for sex, still go crazy for orgasms. This is one pleasure I will never deny myself. I may scrimp and save on food and clothes, but I must have my orgasms.

Why am I telling you all this? Because I bought myself one of the cheapest dildos I could find. I bought one for less than $10. To be precise, my X5 – 5.5 Inch Cock with Flexible Spine cost me all of $7.34.

I have a Caucasian friend whose dildo costs about six times this much. The same with an African-American friend who bought hers for around $30. And as for the Filipino-American girls whom I grew up with and who I see frequently? They’re no different from the rest. They all paid top money for their dildos.

“Why didn’t you just get one at the Salvation Army?” one of them asked when she saw my inexpensive dildo.

“Maybe next time, I will,” I answered. That was a joke, of course. I’m not that cheap.

Anyway, my X5 does it for me. When I reach for it on the nights that I feel like masturbating, I know that I will have a very good time. I know that the night will end with me having a staggering orgasm. I’ll sleep soundly and wake up the next day feeling totally refreshed and relaxed. I may even have flushed cheeks left over from last night.

This sex toy has just the right firmness. When I grip it, it feels exactly like the dick of that jerk of a boyfriend I used to have. It’s about the same size too. The flexible spine is supposedly a big plus, but I use it the way I got it. Straight up and with my vagina getting a good hold on its thickness.

I don’t care what anyone says. My dildo may be cheap, but it’s very realistic. Most of all, I get great orgasms when I use it. I can’t ask for more.

Brenda, 20, of Daly City

It’s a lot like losing their virginity. If the first experience with vaginal sex is extremely painful – either physically or mentally (as in the case of rape) – they may avoid having sex altogether.

For some reason, it’s harder to get over negative first impressions where anal sex is concerned.

For almost all women, their first taste of vaginal sex can be painful, but most get over it and sooner or later enjoy what they consider “normal” sex. Alas, anal sex does not get the same breaks. So in order to convince a woman to have anal sex with a man, he must convince her that her past experiences do not represent what she will always feel – pain! – whenever he has his dick insider her anus.

Rule number one is – no forcing through. Don’t coerce her to have anal sex if she is unprepared. Presuming that the two of you have been having regular cock-to-vagina sex, take your time, boys. Cock-to-anus sex can happen soon enough, but only if she is good and ready.

Rule number two is – let her determine when it’s time to do the backdoor deed. Just let her know that you enjoy anal sex, and you know that she will too. Your reassurances are needed to help her relax, get in the mood, and finally decide that the time is right.

Rule number three is – do it slowly, on installments if you will. Don’t suddenly shove your prick all the way in the moment she finally agrees for you to do it. Slow but sure is the key. Let her guide your cock in, but be the one who pulls out after your initial entry. Start by going in an inch.

Don’t stay too long, either. An inch for a few seconds can be followed by an inch for a longer period. Then it can be two inches inside, again for a short period, followed by the same two inches for a longer period. You get the picture. You can go all the way in after a while, and stay in as long as you both like. Patience is indeed a virtue, right?

Finally, there’s the all important rule number four – use a lubricant. Lots of it. You can never have too much lubricant, so lay it on thick before you put it in.

Don’t be a cheapskate where lubes are concerned. Buy the best kind. Look at sites that sell sex goodies, and study all the lubricants that are used for anal. Then take out your wallet and tell yourself this is not the time to be stingy.

It also goes without saying that your penis and her anus will be one hundred percent clean when you have anal sex. Also, don’t be shy about telling her that you also want to have your own anus fucked, either by her fingers or by one of her sex toys. If she has several dildos, pick one out and use that for your anal probes. Better yet, buy an anal dildo for your exclusive use.

Remember that while anal sex can be most pleasurable for her, she will not react the same way as she would when you are tickling her clitoris. With vaginal/clitoral sex, she can act like a wild tigress. With anal sex, she may be more of a lazy cat purring as she enjoys the treat.

Beds are great for sleeping, but even better for fucking. The question is, which kinds of beds are best for sex?The question isn’t as silly as it seems. Since there are several different types of beds, some would certainly be better than others.

Take the water bed, for example. When they first came out a few decades ago, some were claiming that they were in fact made for sex. They were different, to be sure, and a few Hollywood films implied that water beds were perfect for fucking. But as anyone who has ever tried it knows, it’s not necessarily so. Water beds may be fun for a host of activities, but fucking isn’t one of them. Too many positions are practically impossible on a water bed.

A hammock is not much better. Although the experience would indeed be different, hammocks have the same weakness as water beds. Your range of movement is pretty limited on one.

Air beds are fine, but only if they are made of sturdy materials that do not leak. A firm air bed can mean good sex, but when the air escapes – which can happen while fucking – the good quickly downgrades to so-so.

And what about a mat? Mats can be better than hammocks but because they are usually spread out on a hard floor, sex can become uncomfortable after a while.

Most of us have beds which fall under two categories. They can have foam mattresses or they can have innersprings. Of the two, it is the latter which is considered better for sex. Innerspring mattresses give back energy when in use.  In simplest terms, you get more motion when using an innerspring mattress with less effort compared to a foam mattress.

So you want to have the best sex imaginable? Invest in a good innerspring mattress. And don’t scrimp. You’re going to spend one third of your life in your bed, so might as well get the best that you can afford.

This is particularly true about matters pertaining to sex. Among the powerful ideas are the following:

• Gay marriage is immoral – there are now some states in the US which have made same-sex marriage legal. Not good enough? Consider that a mere few decades ago, same-sex marriage was illegal in all 50 states.
• Normal people use sex toys – for decades, buyers and users of sex toys were considered a lot of things, none of them good. They were perverts, they were a bad influence on society, they were evil. Today, doctors and sex therapists consider sex toys as useful aids to maintaining healthy relationships.
• Masturbation is bad – it could cause blindness and mental problems, among others. All of the old wives tales have been disproven in countless clinical studies.

Not too long ago, the very idea of an African-American as president of the US of A was considered an impossibility. Last we checked, Barack Obama was still president of America. So what’s next, a woman as president? Not so unlikely now, is it? Even more surprising is that the conservative Republican Party has a couple of viable candidates who want to run against the African-American president in the next elections.

A lot of taboos of the past are now being scrapped. Anything you do is all right, as long as you do no harm to anyone, yourself included.

You like to masturbate with sex toys? Join the club. There are millions of members and the list keeps growing. We like to call this club the human race.

If your lady is one of the super lucky ones to have this ability, then you must do what you can to make her experience it as frequent as possible. Here’s how you can do it:

Double up the foreplay

Intense orgasms result from lots of stimulation, and for your woman to reach this level of stimulation, she needs lots of foreplay. So don’t skimp on the preliminary loving. Give her lots of erotic massages and oral sex. These are essential to build up her pleasure which will lead to multiple orgasms.

Let her cum first

We know that it is hard enough for men to control their orgasms for as long as they could, but if you want to give your partner multiple orgasms, you just got to do it. Let her cum once then it will be easier for her to have another one as you take your turn to get an orgasm. Letting her cum first will take of the stress off her body and prime her for another orgasm easily.

Try doing anal

Do not forego the pleasures of anal sex. Your woman might be just of those who are made for some hot backdoor fun. The variety may a huge factor in her achieving multiple orgasms.

Don’t stick with just one method

Speaking of variety, it’s important not to get stuck in just a couple of sex positions. Change positions whenever you can. Alternate the intensity of your thrusts by doing it slow for a few minutes, then go faster, and then go slow again. Do this and watch her excitement build up quickly. Of course, you can also use sex toys to give her different types of orgasms. Get toys that can give her clitoral, vaginal, and anal orgasm to get your money’s worth. A Jack Rabbit is a great example of an all-around toy that you can use on her.

Having morning sex regularly brings lots of benefits to a couple’s relationship. Better sex with your partner strengthens the bond between you two. A lot of couples who do morning sex a lot swear that the routine makes them happier and healthier. No surprise there, since orgasm can do wonders for one’s spirits and health.

Any type of morning sex is already wonderful, but there are ways to make it even better. Here are some of the things that you can do, guaranteed to get you addicted to lots of morning action:

Take advantage of his morning wood

Erection problems are the least of your concerns in the morning, thanks to morning wood. Why not let this good opportunity go to waste? Do not let the morning pass by without enjoying his rock hard cock. Make it even harder by stroking it, then get on top of him and ride to your heart’s content. Give him a great morning by giving him an awesome view of your body when he opens his sleepy eyes.

Lube up

Morning sex can get uncomfy for women at first, since not all are lubricated as soon as they wake up. Make way for your man’s mighty morning wood by putting in lots of lubricants in your pussy. His smooth passage will ensure mighty orgasms for both of you.

Spoon

Since both of you are still in a relaxed state, getting into a strenuous position immediately may knock the breath out of you. Why not try something comfortable first, like spooning? No need to shift arms and legs so much, just let your man cuddle you from behind and allow his hands to play with your breasts and whisper dirty words in your ear. He can just part your legs and ease himself comfortably inside your pussy. If he wants to do faster and harder pumping, then you can shift into a more upright position.

Doing it doggy style while in the shower

This is the simplest position that you can manage, which you can do even without a tub or pool around you. While taking a shower, you can simply fuck your woman from behind and feel the warmth of the water pouring down on you. This is doable even if you have a small bathroom. You can still feel the satisfying pleasure. You can raise your woman’s leg to get a better angle and thrust in her pussy.

Doing the missionary while in the Jacuzzi

Missionary would not be boring if you do it in the Jacuzzi. Nothing beats getting your freak on while immersed in the sensual heat of the small pool. There are Jacuzzis that have contoured surfaces in which you can let your partner lie down for a comfy missionary position.

Woman on top on the edge of the pool

Definitely the easiest way to have sex in the swimming pool. You can just sit on the edge and let your woman straddle you. For a kinkier experience, let her face away from you so you can see her ass bobbing up and down your penis.

Doing it against the ladder of the pool

The ladder of the swimming pool can be used to have great pool sex. You can just grab on to it while fucking your woman standing up. This is perfect for those who want to have sex standing up but finds it difficult to do it because of the weight involved. The water makes you or your partner weightless so you can easily lift her up and down while having sex.

Doing it in the tub, scissor style

No pool in sight? Your bathtub will do! Position yourselves in the tub, facing each other. Lean on one end of the tub and let your partner lean on the other end. Arrange your legs in the water and slowly sink your dick into her pussy while in that position.